Welcome to the BDSM Blog Hop!

“We’re like the anti-50 Shades of Gray pro-BDSM blog hop.” – Vicktor Alexander


Bondage & Discipline, Domination & submission, Sadism & Masochism

BDSM encompasses so many things. It’s understandable why someone who has never participated in it might be confused about what it truthfully entails. We’d like to set that straight. For every person involved in what we call the Lifestyle, there’s a different way of doing things. However, no matter where you go, you’ll encounter a few basic tenets and the folks who are participating in our blog hop would like to show you how some of these things really work. So, please join us!

The hop will last a full week and some of our participants will be posting more than once throughout the week, so make sure you check back for more (or, better yet, sign up to follow the lovely folks participating, they’ve got great stuff!).

If you would like to participate, we’d love to have you! Please note the rules:

Any posts MUST be sex-positive and show BDSM and the kink community in a positive light. If you have never participated in, been part of, or even researched BDSM, it’s probably best if you contact one of the organizers before signing up.

Discussion can be anything you want related to BDSM as long as it does not encourage any of the misconceptions involving BDSM including labeling it as abuse or (non-consensual) violence against another person.

Giveaways are encouraged (though not mandatory–I know not everyone has something to give) and you MUST include either the hop script (which will be sent out before the hop begins) OR a link to the general hop post (not created yet, will also be sent before the hop). WordPress.com does NOT allow scripts, so you must use the link. I don’t know about blogspot/blogger or any of the other sites. WordPress.org will depend on your webhost. If you have trouble, let me know and I’ll do my best to help.

Lastly, when it’s finished, I will email the hop badge to put on your blog or website. (I won’t make this mandatory, either, but the more it’s out there the more people will see it and come back for the hop.)

Questions can be emailed directly to me at duncan.grace.r (at) gmail (dot) com.


To sign up to participate in the hop, click here to register with us.


Current Participants:

To register with the link-up, click the button below.

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For the banner, right-click above and click ‘save as’ then save on your local computer. For the blog badge, you can get the image below.








Graphics by Jess Small. If there are questions, broken links or any other problems, please email Grace.